Use These 3 Simple Skills To Deal With People Who Ghost You

Life Is Love School
2 min readApr 23, 2021

You had the power all along; maybe you just forgot how to use it

Have you had to deal with people communicate by “not communicating?”

I’m talking about people who stonewall, disappear, or ignore you when you want to talk to them to solve issues or get closure. People like this can be incredibly frustrating to deal with because non of your ninja communication skills work when they won’t even come to the table. Dealing with evaders is especially hard for you if you’ve suffered abandonment and neglect growing up; their non-responsiveness can evoke the familiar feeling of being unloved and unvalued.

“The most common way people give up their power is by thinking they don’t have any.” — Alice Walker

In this episode, I give you 3 straightforward, simple, and effective strategies to deal with people like this. (Hint: It has everything to do with holding strong boundaries, and the difference between cats and rabbits!)

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Life Is Love School

Entrepreneur, Google/Microsoft manager, traveler. Words in Ascent, Hello Love, Change Becomes You. I run support groups for adult survivors of childhood trauma.